By Niseema Dyan Diemer LMT, SEP, BCPP
In part two of our interview with therapist and author of Listening to Ecstasy: The Transformative Power of MDMA, Charley Wininger LP, LMHC shares how this “miraculous molecule” can transform couples therapy as well as the treatment of PTSD, anxiety, social anxiety and end of life care. “MDMA has a way of connecting you not only to yourself but to others and the Universe."
How does MDMA work? Our moods and social experiences in life are modified and enhanced by a host of different hormones that are part of a complex integrated orchestra which science is just beginning to understand. When instruments in that orchestra are out of tune, playing too slow, or too fast, or not at all we can find ourselves struggling to find harmony and coherence in ourselves and with others.
Trauma is often the cause of this dis-harmony. It shifts the brain into chronic states of fight or flight. When this happens access to good memories seems to dwindle and the more frightening traumatic memories dominate your percepition of the world. It can become so difficult to get to access these good feelings of connection and love that many attempt or commit suicide. fMRI studies show that while taking MDMA the participants were able to remember the "good times" with more details and emotional content and that their traumatic memories felt futher away and less triggering.
Imagine being able to find some distance from a traumatic event. In that distance you could process what happened and let the charge of that event lessen its hold on you. Ultimately the potential of MDMA treatment could be re-establishing a base line of safety and connection leading to a more harmonious experience of life. This is the experience that Charley details in his book and generously shares in our conversation.
The powers of this mind/body psychedelic are seemingly limitless when used the way Charley describes. It may be that MDMA is one medicine that will provide a gateway for so many who feel trapped in the cacophony left in the wake of trauma. By listening to Ecstasy in all its forms, and demystifying its reputation, that gateway can open up a more connected world.